In these times of new phrases, “It is what it is, at the end of the day, etc.” Now we have “Occupy” From Los Angeles, to New York, to all around the world, we are shouting “Occupy!” We are moving fast and the directions sometimes intermingle and crisscross, but they lead us to the same point.
In the world in which we are presently living, there is so much deception and denial that is really boggles our mind. This is a realization that has hit us continually in the face and still we are sometimes in pure denial. I don’t understand why it is so necessary for a person to deny his wants and needs; moreover, be up front about them, especially to the one he is “supposed” to love. If you are unhappy, unfulfilled, or you are NOT into the person you are with– then be wo/man enough to say that.
What you seem to ignore is the fact that we are ALL connected and we do feel and feed off of each other’s energies. I am a firm believer that if you go looking for stuff you will find it, if the person is sloppy enough to leave cookie crumbs, I am going to follow the trail, and guess who I will find with their hands in the cookie jar? That is not the thing that pisses me off the most! It is the denial and bullshit they give you when you are looking right at their face. If you are wo/man enough to do it, then step up and admit it. Don’t look at the person like a deer caught in the headlights. I am sick and tired of the bullshit! Remember the old cliché “any action will cause a reaction.” Therefore, expect to face the reality when the time comes.
Let’s occupy ourselves in a way that releases the other person or at least give them the choice. People really think they can pass the shit* out and expect not to get their hands dirty. For the ones that have been the doormats, who have been stumped on, stepped on, and had the shit* rubbed in their faces; I am asking you to grab that welcome mat(yourself) shake it off, get you some very strong hooks(faith), and hang it up saying “Occupied”… enter at your own risk! Let people know you are not accepting the garbage they are trying to dump on you. I am not just talking about your partner—I am talking about anyone in your life that does not sincerely value you as a loving person, or anyone that brings you down. They need to know that they are not welcomed any longer and that you are NOT afraid of grabbing hold of your life and living it to the very fullest.
Occupy yourself and be worthy of all the good God has given us and know that just because we might not be loved by the person we are with; there is someone who will love us the way we deserve, even if that someone is the most important person in your universe… that person is “YOU.”
*I apologize for the profanity but sometimes those are the most appropiate
words to use